I agree with your opinion and find the whole mess between Farrow and Allen a frustrating he said, she said, writ large. Woody Allen has always been frank and open about his sexuality in his films, and if you watch him interact with kids in his movies, he's totally appropriate. His decision to drop Mia for Soon-Yi makes total sense in the context of the fact that Soon-Yi never liked Mia Farrow and Woody Allen found a confidante there (he didn't like Mia Farrow toward the end). The HBO docu I didn't bother watching because it's looks like muckracking with home movies posing as investigating journalism.

But, I get why people assume he's guilty. And I don't listen to Michael Jackson songs, at least not on purpose.