It's not easy. I got to a brand new community just before Covid, so I'd say it's now been 1 full "normal" year and there aren't any I would just call up to go get coffee, but I'm learning. I guess the first thing is to call someone up to go get coffee! I do highly recommend Community Theatre. You don't need talent--there's always something to do. Being in a play - or near one - is a great way to bond.