I've been ghosted and I've ghosted and I've come to the conclusion that often, the relationship was never meant to be. Usually, I got into the friendship out of convenience, and often there were many things about the person I either didn't understand, didn't like, or couldn't tolerate. In some cases, they were people many others couldn't tolerate! As for myself, I'm not an easy flavor either. I wish I were. I'm not consistent, usually can only have one close friend at a time, and really struggle with regulating things like communication, levels of activity, and consistent interests. So it's beginning to make more sense to me why friendships come and go for some of us.