I've never liked Denning the same way I don't like Joe Rogan. There's a level of aggressiveness that's offputting. The title of the article "don't list to ... babies who tell you life is unfair" is odd. Life is unfair. Accepting that is a basic part of growing up, but there is a difference in life (existence) being unfair and the results of racism, sexism, agism, etc. We should fight to understand how those man-made inequities happen and work toward a more just society. Often, people who don't grasp the destructive power of prejudice and -isms use the "life is unfair" credo to justify their lack of empathy and victim blaming.