Most things having to do with clothes suck if you are autistic and ADHD. Maybe there is some AUHD female (my own term) out there who loves clothing, fashion, dressing up, costumes, and outfits--and if so, please write an article about it. CLOTHING TAKES SO MUCH MENTAL EFFORT. Clothing adjacent activities like shopping, church, and ironing are all the same to me: annoying requirements for adulting. Yes, I know it seems like church should be optional, but for a variety of reasons it isn't where I live. I go to the UU where they say they accept everybody, and I've stopped "dressing up" and some people don't accept me, which is the whole problem with religion...Sorry, off-topic. Anyway--thank you! This ND feels liberated in solidarity with a perfectly normal hatred of ironing!