Since I cringe at the term "soul mate" I guess this article was written for me. Heaven and Hell are also wacky notions to teach children about inevitable rewards for good behavior and punishment for screwing up, so get your act together kids! It's heartening ponder how we are systems within systems, ever changing, and our identity is much more like a handful of glitter tossed into the air than a fixed entity called "soul." Thanks for the well-reasoned reminder.