This is what frustrates me, honestly. I'm not gay enough to be gay, and besides I'm married - so no tribe there. I'm not smart enough to be a whiz kid, even though I have a so-called high IQ, because I can't tolerate ambiguity. I'm not social enough, but I'm not a hermit. I'm not feminine enough to fit in with most women, but I'm a "she/her." I'm not enough but I'm too much. I don't mind when idiots don't understand but when it's my otherwise intelligent friends, I realize how insanely ableist our society is. And the fact that everybody wants you to be in a box so they don't have to think.