Yep. It's beyond annoying. I can achieve something -- like a college degree, or two -- but feel little about it. I've never understood this but it's a huge source of frustration and demotivation. My ADHD combined with autism and alexithymia have made having any direction in life--career AND family--impossible. So I got labeled "underachiever." I've had 90 jobs. That is what it means to lack a compass!